If you could not make it to the service, you still may well have had your words seen by those there.  A friend of the family asked if it would be possible to collect articles, and comments from the internet, from those who had expressed their sorrow.  What I was able to come up with is in THE PDF FILE HERE as a compilation.  Though it is not complete, it is most of what has been written and commented on up until midnight last night. The printed version was passed around, and went home with the family.