All the while this friend complains that her daughter does not have access to "quality health care" (she is on Medicaid), she does not have access to good housing (deadbeat renters usually have a history), she does not like the available public school special ed programs for her son (so she cajoled a Catholic school into admiting him on a free scholarship).  It never ends.  It is everyone else's fault that her daughter made bad life choices (right under her nose and control)and we must pay the consequences for her bad choices.

And this friend just retired from the state and is now complaining about the benefits.  It really never does end.